Forgiveness is one of the most difficult skills to conquer all types of behavior in mankind.
Next to judgementalness, it is the reason for more conflict and damage than any other. Often we think that hatred or anger is the most devastating emotion, however, anger and hatred come from one of the more core emotions; judgmentalness or unforgiveness.
Because of the way our minds are structured to respond to our environment, we tend to make logical decisions based on our emotional state. When we are wronged, we feel the normal emotional response just like we would to any pain. A kick in the knee brings pain and it subsides depending on the level of the pain.
Pain in our emotions also subsides, depending on the level of the event. Since we are all individuals, we all have different ways of handling pain. Some people have more tolerance, some don’t. That is just how it is.
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